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55 y/o divorced woman, looking for the right man to share and celebrate life with. I have 4 grown sons and one new granddaughter, all of whom mean the world to me. I am a full-time legal assistant by day, and a church director of music (pianist/organist) by weekend. Was full-time wife and Scout-mom for 28 years and loved every minute of it (have 4 Eagle Scout sons who I'm just a little proud of). While I left my marriage because of an emotionally and verbally abusive situation, I have grown much since my divorce and am now ready to stop focussing on the past and get on with the future. I gain much fulfillment from making a house a home, preparing a great home-cooked meal, and enjoying the finer things in life (dinner at a nice restaurant, evening at theater, walk in the woods, cuddling with a special person and meaningful conversations). I love music--playing and listening--especially contemporary church music, easy-listening or classical. My faith is the center of my life, and I am very active in my church. I'm a cat lover and have 3 of my own. I have a great sense of humor and believe it's important to be able to laugh at oneself from time to time. I am a Dave Ramsey fan and, although I LOVE chocolate and everything that is unhealthy, I work hard at trying to eat healthy most of the time (trying to lose 15 pounds). To be honest, I hate to exercise, but do it anyway (by NO means a fanatic, though!) I'm told I have a great work ethic and am looking for someone who can appreciate the value of doing a job well and staying at it until it's complete. I do not smoke and will not date a smoker. I enjoy an occasional drink but over-users need not reply. Not interested in a one-sided, short-term, disposable relationship. I'm no beauty queen but take pride in my appearance and grooming and social graces and would love to meet someone who can do the same. I know it sounds like I'm asking for a lot, but honesty is important to me, so I'm doing my best to describe upfront the type of person I would be interested in. One more thing..... I like to talk!

Virgo

A Few Extra Pounds

5' 2 (1.57 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Divorced

Yes - Sometimes At Home

No

Smile

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

Dark Brown

Cat

Some College

Full-time

Legal

Legal Assistant (FT); Church Music Dir.

$45,000USD To $59,999USD

With Pet(s)

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Brain

Friendly, Comedic, Outgoing

Arts & Crafts, Music, Games, Family, Dining, Religion / Spirituality, Cooking

Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Relaxing, Sleeping, Going To A Casino, Going To A Concert

nice dinner out in a relaxed and unhurried setting, musical or theater production, plenty of time to just talk and get to know each other.

vocal lessons for my own enrichment, floral arranging, being a paralegal

Friendly

Christian

Once A Week

Conservative

to be the best version of myself possible.

Friendly

News

Drama

Pop, Classical, Gospel

Health, Home & Garden, Instructional, Religious

---finding a bargain at a garage sale or consignment shop, spending time with my new granddaughter, playing piano, going out to eat, going to a cultural event like theater, opera, musical, etc., going to the Casino JUST OCCASIONALLY AND WITH A LIMITED AMOUNT OF MONEY, trying out new and easy recipes, working on projects around my home, fishing, playing Bookworm on my computer.

Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness

--respect and tolerance for others' inadequacies, compassion and empathy for those who are hurting, someone who's faith in God is strong, someone who appreciates the finer things in life but places relationships over money.

Committed