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well, I am under reconstruction. I am taking it slow this time, just wanting a friendship and respect first. I don't know if I'm ready to date and just want to take things one day at a time. I believe in love, in being a couple forever. I have seen my grandparents and parents go thru it and many others. I know I want to be like an old couple I see every once in a while, hand in hand in the mall, just walking along as if one were a natural extension of the other. I do not feel complete without the ying to my yang. I truly feel someone is out there for me and I have yet to find him. I've had some tell me that I must scare men because of my intelligence and sense of independence. I would hope someone would love me for those features and not be afraid of them. It could mean that while I would rely upon them to support my decisions and be my partner in life, they would benefit from those strengths...not be sapped by someone who is needed and immature. Ok, maybe I am talking too much, but isn't there one solitary man out there willing to show love and respect to a strong woman for a change? Not be emasculated by it?

Cancer

A Few Extra Pounds

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Hazel

Caucasian

Divorced

Yes - Not At Home

No

Eyes

Secret Piercings, Strategically Placed Tattoo

Dark Blonde

No pets

Some College

Full-time

Administrative / Management

Executive Administrative Assistant & Bkp

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

Alone

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - Often

Average Joe

Flirtatious, Outgoing

Reading, Music, Movies, Games, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Family, Dining, Theater, Travel, Cars, Playing Cards, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Trying New Things, The Movies

A nice quiet dinner at a new restaurant where new flavors and experiences could be had as well as a good conversation. While I love going to the movies, it doesn't give you a chance to talk. I also love live music at bars but there again, too much noise to have to try to talk over.

A full Japanese meal, where the chef prepares everything in front of you...then off to a live Broadway play!

Friendly

Spiritual But Not Religious

On Holidays

I Don't Like Politics

My goal is to travel more to foreign countries, try new things that are out of the ordinary, find that one person who loves me and respects me, be a good grandparent to my grandchildren and to leave behind a legacy that my loved ones will remark upon in years to come

Campy, Friendly, Slapstick, Raunchy

News, Movies, Sports

Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Thriller

Rock, Metal, Pop, Punk

Fiction, Horror, Mystery

A NICE QUIET DINNER, MAYBE A MOVIE LATER ON AFTER SEVERAL DATES, LISTENING TO LIVE MUSIC, DRINKING AND DANCING, PLAYING POOL...(I AM LOUSY BUT LOVE TO ANYWAY)

Humor, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness

I look for someone who is a great conversationalist, is secure in social settings, is intelligent but not a 'know it all', is respectful of my independent nature and is loving and kind.

Friend, Date